In our house I have been working to get across the idea that 'thoughts are things', the premise behind the 1937 book Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill . It's important to me that the kids understand that we can have control over our thoughts and what they think about will come about.
I didn't know they heard me.
Earlier this week a kitten was dropped off at our house. We were sitting on the lawn trying to befriend him and decide what we should do when my 13 year old spotted a bucket a baseballs that we had purchased from a friend on the weekend. "Holy Smokes Mom. We manifested a cat!"
Here lies the problem. I didn't read the parenting chapter on that. So my mind was instantly a muck with
- He listens?
- What if he's afraid to bring anything into his life with a picture?
- Should I tell him he's right...that he's wrong?
- This is why people don't discuss this shit with kids.
I decided to implement the well used laugh and deflect technique practised for generations of parents without the right answer.
We will revisit this conversation after I figure out what to do with this cat...
That's some mighty mojo you have going on. Though I think you should expect a second ginger kitty!
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